Not Looking for Commitment

Not everybody who dates is looking for a serious, long-term commitment. Maybe they're concentrating on other aspects of their life right now, such as their career, and do not have the time or energy to commit to someone. Perhaps they've just come out of a long-term relationship and need some time to heal and move on. It could be that they are simply at the stage of their life where they're just not interested in settling down or being part of a couple, or maybe they're just happy with their own company and living the single life.

If you start to date anyone who is in this situation, and they are completely honest and upfront with you about this from the start, then you may feel that it may still be worth seeing this person on a more casual basis. This type of 'relationship' can work out well, as it allows both parties to share a physical closeness as well as enjoy each others friendship.

However, this advice comes with a serious warning. Unless you're not looking for anything more serious either, then don't even think about casually dating someone who has quite clearly told you that they do not want a relationship. It's a common, but dreadful mistake to get involved, hoping that one day they'll change their mind.

The important thing is to listen to, respect and accept their need to be unattached, whilst also understanding and respecting what you need. It's essential to be absolutely honest with yourself at this point, it will save you a great deal of frustration and heartache in the future. If you feel that you do want more, either with them, or with someone else, then move on from them and find someone who CAN offer you what you're looking for.