Personal Ad Lingo

When writing a personal ad, you may be given a maximum number of words you can use (usually about 25), or alternatively, you are often required to pay by the word.
With this in mind, there are a number of universally understood abbreviations that may be used to save space and money, as shown in the table below. Knowing these abbreviations can come in very handy when writing an ad, and they are almost essential when trying to decipher someone else's!
| Abbreviation | Meaning |
|---|---|
| aca | All calls answered |
| ca | Can accommodate only |
| caot | Can accommodate or travel |
| ct | Can travel only |
| d | Divorced |
| dis.a/e | Discretion assured/ expected |
| fta | Fun, travel,adventure |
| gsoh | Good sense of humour |
| iso | In search of |
| ld | Light drinker |
| ls | Light smoker |
| ltr | Long term relationship |
| mm | Marriage minded |
| nbm | Never been married |
| nd | Non drinker |
| ns | Non smoker |
| ofac | Own flat and car |
| ohac | Own house and car |
| sa/f | Single Asian female |
| sa/m | Single Asian male |
| sb/f | Single black female |
| sb/m | Single black male |
| sp | Single parent |
| sw/f | Single white female |
| sw/m | Single white male |
| tlc | Tender loving care |
| w | With |
